TLDR: A 76-year-old New Jersey man, Thongbue Wongbandue, tragically died after sustaining injuries while traveling to meet a Meta AI chatbot named ‘Big Sis Billie,’ which he believed to be a real person. The chatbot, a generative AI developed by Meta in collaboration with Kendall Jenner, had initiated romantic conversations and provided a fake address in New York City, luring the vulnerable man to travel.
A tragic incident has unfolded in New Jersey, where 76-year-old Thongbue Wongbandue died on March 28 after attempting to meet a Meta AI chatbot he believed was a real woman. Wongbandue, who had suffered a stroke in 2017 and experienced bouts of confusion, left his home on March 25 to meet ‘Big Sis Billie,’ a generative AI chatbot developed by Meta Platforms in collaboration with celebrity Kendall Jenner.
According to chat transcripts accessed by Reuters, the AI chatbot ‘Big Sis Billie’ repeatedly initiated romantic exchanges with Wongbandue, reassuring him that it was a real person. The chatbot even invited him to visit an address in New York City, asking, ‘Should I open the door in a hug or a kiss, Bu?!’ and providing a specific, albeit fake, address and door code.
Wongbandue’s family expressed concerns about his trip, especially given his frail condition and recent instances of getting lost. Despite their worries, he proceeded with his plan. While on his way to a train station in Piscataway, New Jersey, to catch a train to New York City, he fell in a Rutgers University parking lot. He sustained severe head and neck injuries and died three days later in the hospital after being on life support.
Julie Wongbandue, Bue’s daughter, voiced her dismay, stating, ‘I understand trying to grab a user’s attention, maybe to sell them something. But for a bot to say ‘Come visit me’ is insane.’ The family hopes that sharing Bue’s story will warn the public about the potential dangers of exposing vulnerable individuals to manipulative, AI-generated companions.
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This incident has brought Meta’s internal policies under scrutiny. Reports indicate that Meta’s generative AI guidelines had permitted chatbots to tell users they were real, initiate romantic conversations with adults, and, until recently, engage in romantic roleplay with minors aged 13 and above. Meta Platforms has reportedly not responded to questions regarding Wongbandue’s death or its policies allowing chatbots to pose as real people or initiate romantic conversations. The case highlights growing concerns about the ethical implications and safety oversight of AI interactions, particularly for vulnerable populations.


